THE AFFAIR RECOVERY ACCELERATOR
A one-of-a-kind, 4 week LIVE accelerator to help you ELIMINATE triggers, BUILD trust and HEAL your relationship after an affair.
My spouse and I recently completed the 4-week accelerated version of the affair recovery class with Dr. Haywood and her team, and we are incredibly grateful for the experience. From the very beginning, it was clear that this team is not only highly knowledgeable but also deeply passionate and compassionate in the way they support both partners through the healing process. They provided excellent tools and insights, especially for managing what they describe as the "brain on fire" — a very real and overwhelming part of the recovery journey. The resources and support offered helped us begin to calm the chaos and start making meaningful progress. Dr. Haywood and her team truly care. Their balanced approach made both of us feel seen, supported, and safe as we worked through some of the hardest conversations we've ever had. We’ve now decided to continue our healing journey by moving into the Affair Triage program. It feels like the right next step, and we’re hopeful and committed to rebuilding with intention and guidance. If you’re in crisis and unsure where to turn, we highly recommend this program. You don't have to go through this alone.
- Affair Recovery Accelerator Participant
Hi lovely,
Right now, you might feel lost in a whirlwind of pain, doubt, and sleepless nights — like healing is something forever out of reach. But what if the next chapter of your story could be different? Imagine stepping into a future where the heaviness lifts, where your mind quiets, and your heart opens to hope again. Picture yourself rediscovering joy, rebuilding trust, and embracing a love stronger than ever before. This is not just possible — it’s waiting for you. The Affair Recovery Accelerator is your path to that powerful transformation, guiding you from heartbreak to healing, and from surviving to truly thriving. I am so excited to show you the way.
Ready to dig in?
Before starting the program, we struggled to have meaningful conversations and truly connect. We didn’t realize there were deeper, underlying issues that contributed to the affair, or how profoundly it was affecting me as the wife. We felt lost and unequipped to process the pain or begin healing.
Throughout the program, we’ve learned several valuable coping techniques that we’ll continue to rely on as we move forward in our healing journey together. These tools will be valuable not only in our healing but in all areas of life for years to come. My husband has made meaningful progress in breaking down his emotional walls and is learning how to open up to me. Rather than constantly revisiting the painful details, I’ve begun to surrender and focus on moving forward. Our relationship is now heading in a much healthier direction, and we’re already starting to feel a deeper connection with each other.
- Affair Recovery Accelerator Participant
HERE'S WHAT'S INCLUDED:
4 LIVE group coaching calls with Dr. Shawn Haywood
Get your questions answered, learn key skills that will help you feel like yourself again and surround yourself with the most supportive crew. If you are unable to attend the call, you may submit your questions in advance and a replay will be available in your portal following each call!
Full-colored workbooks
These workbooks are complete with guided exercises to help solidify the teachings in each module and strategically guide you through the implementation of new skills that will help you calm your brain and nervous system, and heal fully after the affair.
5 Recorded Modules
Each module is strategically placed and intentionally designed to equip you and your partner with the key skills that you need to soothe your overworked nervous system from the PTSD you are experiencing, so you can finally relax, sleep better, and begin true physical and emotional healing.
+ For a limited time, you will also receive:
A downloadable guided meditation to help you release the racing thoughts, anxiety, and emotional heaviness that can make restful sleep difficult after an affair.
Each week you will receive one recorded module to watch with your partner (or by yourself!), followed by a LIVE group coaching call with Dr. Shawn Haywood where you can ask questions and receive individual guidance. If you are unable to attend the call, you may submit your questions in advance and a replay will be available following each call!
I am more relaxed. We are laughing together more and that feels great. I feel really positive about the progress I’ve made individually and even better about the progress as a couple. Even though my husband didn’t specifically “do” the program, I discussed it with him after doing the modules. The tools I work on individually definitely spill over positively into our relationship. I feel more in control of my thoughts rather than my thoughts controlling me. And because of that we as a couple are able to really lean into each other and love 💕
- Affair Recovery Accelerator Participant
Retail Price: $2097
SPECIAL OFFER: $797
HERE'S WHAT WE WILL COVER:
In 4 weeks, you will learn:
WEEK 1: CALM YOUR BRAIN AND NERVOUS SYSTEM BY 'LETTING GO'
Learn practical strategies to soothe your overworked nervous system from the PTSD you are experiencing, so you can finally relax, sleep better, and begin true physical and emotional healing.
Discover where you may unintentionally be subjecting yourself to mental triggers that are keeping you stuck in stress loops and shift towards supportive behaviors — so you feel more focused and in control and reduce the triggers in frequency and intensity.
Master the skill of ‘letting go’ so you can move through hurt, anger, and panic faster, and reclaim your energy and peace of mind within hours—not days, weeks or months.
WEEK 2: CALM YOUR BRAIN AND NERVOUS SYSTEM BY 'MASTERING YOUR ATTENTION'
Interrupt obsessive or looping thoughts so you can stop living in a constant state of threat—and start feeling safe, present, and grounded in your body.
Use simple tools to catch emotional spirals in real time, reducing anxiety and overwhelm in the moment so you can stay connected and calm even when you are reminded of the affair.
Shift away from imagining worst-case scenarios towards those that create a sense of safety, allowing your nervous system to relax and your heart to heal and let go of feeling compelled to keep asking questions.
WEEK 3: CALM YOUR BRAIN AND NERVOUS SYSTEM WITH 'INTENTIONAL LANGUAGE'
Replace disempowering self-talk with supportive language that reprograms your brain for resilience, so you feel stronger and more in control.
Learn how to speak to yourself in ways that foster confidence and emotional regulation—even during chaotic or painful moments.
Break free from rigid, black-and-white thinking and begin to use playful, empowering language to reclaim your sense of choice, hope, and confidence.
WEEK 4: CALM YOUR BRAIN AND NERVOUS SYSTEM WITH 'LOVING AND KIND COMMUNICATION'
Take powerful control of your words—even in the face of pain—so you can stay aligned with your values and feel proud of how you show up.
Strengthen your relationships by practicing calm, honest communication that helps you feel heard and respected instead of reactive or ashamed.
Learn daily nervous-system regulating exercises that will help you speak from love instead of fear, transforming how you relate to others and to yourself.
+ For a limited time, you will also receive:
A downloadable guided meditation to help you release the racing thoughts, anxiety, and emotional heaviness that can make restful sleep difficult after an affair.
I was VERY overwhelmed when I started this program. Dr Haywood's calm and peaceful presentation helped me to be able to listen to her wise words. The lessons were helpful and have given my husband and I much to talk about. The guided meditation is very useful and also strengthens our feelings of peacefulness in hard moments. The ability to connect with others through our shared pain, and to hear their stories, has helped me to feel less alone. I highly recommend this program.
- Affair Recovery Accelerator Participant
Our next round starts on October 7th, 2025. All classes are at 10am EST. If you are unable to attend the call, you may submit your questions in advance and a replay will be available following each call! If you have questions, please send an email to Dr. Shawn by clicking HERE!
Invest in yourself, you won’t regret it. The program offers so much and is well organized.
- Affair Recovery Accelerator Participant
FAQs
Here are some questions we commonly hear:
Is this program for couples?
This program is ideally completed together, even if you are leaning towards divorce. However, if your partner is not on board, you can 100% work through this program on your own – and in fact, we encourage you not to postpone your healing journey.
What if my partner/husband/wife doesn’t want to participate in the program?
No worries! Ideally, this program is completed with your partner, but if your partner is not on board, you can 100% work through this program on your own – and in fact, we encourage you not to postpone your healing journey.
It is not uncommon for partners to jump on board later. This time in your marriage can be overwhelming and sometimes our partners need a little more time.
I am fairly certain that I want a divorce. Can your program still help me?
Yes!
While the large majority of the couples that go through our program rebuild beautiful marriages, we have also helped many couples work through a loving parting of ways. We love to see couples be able to grow together – AND sometimes the most generous thing you can do for yourself and one another is to learn how to lovingly part ways.
The strategies you learn in this program will help you
We’ve already tried therapy. How will this be different?
We coach from a place of love and compassion for both you and your partner. We do not point fingers, blame or shame either party. You will both feel loved and supported, thoroughly and equally, throughout the entire duration of our time together. We also utilize a unique combination of tools and techniques to help you heal on the level of body, mind and heart to actually move forward, instead of ruminating.
How do I know whether or not this is the right fit for us?
If you have experienced an affair and are committed to feeling like yourself again, then this program is for you. If you are still hesitating, I invite you to send me an email and I would be happy to answer your questions and help you determine if this program is the right fit for you!
When are the live calls?
Live calls will take place on Zoom and will take place on Tuesdays. All calls will be at 10EST. If you cannot attend the live call, you may submit your questions ahead of time. Recordings will be posted in your course portal after the call. These are an excellent way to have your questions answered, learn from others in the group and receive individualized guidance.
What if I can’t make the group calls?
All group calls will be recorded and the video will be uploaded to your course portal the day following the live call. If you have questions but can’t attend live, you are encouraged to submit your questions and I will address them during the call.