DR. SHAWN HAYWOOD PRESENTS
5/7/2024 @ 9:00 AM (EST)
Marriage After An Affair:
3 Crucial Steps to Healing, Forgiving, Renewing Trust, and Getting A Fresh Chance At Happiness
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No high-achieving, professional woman goes into her marriage thinking her husband will have an affair. In fact, she really thinks, "That could never happen to me... to us"
But when you find out that it IS happening to you- your entire world is turned upside down...
Your heart stops
You go into emotional shock
You double over with the most horrific pain in your gut
Your mind races thinking about every grueling, awful, heart-wrenching detail
You can’t catch your breath, and briefly wonder if you will ever breathe again…
And then comes the feelings of anger and betrayal - which feels like a freight train that might take you completely over
It's death by a thousand heart-wrenching cuts… it's all consuming, and your mind can think of nothing else.
And then:
Not only do the images of him with another woman play and replay again and again and again (even if the affair was 3 years ago)…
You can’t get to sleep, you can't stay asleep, and when it's time to get up, you want to go back to sleep
You can't eat, or you're binging on junk and too much wine
You can’t get a straight answer from your husband about the million questions you have, but aren't really sure you want answered
You think you want the truth, but the truth is overwhelmingly crippling
Your mind races and you feel like you might never recover from this
And then come the questions:
Can we survive this?
Do I even want to stay married?
How can I ever trust him again?
Can I even look him in the eyes again?
Am I an idiot for still loving him and believing we can survive this?
Am I even more of an idiot for wanting to stay?
Ugh... it's all just so damn painful...
At some point, you think to yourself, “Come on, get yourself together, after all, you're strong; you’re a capable business owner- an amazing professional woman; maybe a great mom too; you can figure anything out. So, you can get through this... too... right...?”
So you get to work- you try reading books, talking to him, therapy, podcasts...
You feel a little better at times, a little closer on occasion
BUT NOW
💔 YOU CAN'T SEEM TO SHAKE THE IMAGES OF HIM WITH THE OTHER WOMAN
💔 YOU CAN'T SEEM TO FULLY FORGIVE HIM
💔 YOU DON'T TRUST HIM AND WONDER IF HE'S REALLY GOING WHERE HE SAYS
💔 YOU CAN'T SEEM SHAKE THE FEELINGS OF ANGER, BETRAYAL, RESENTMENT, GUILT AND SHAME
💔 AND YOU JUST CAN'T SEEM TO FEEL LIKE YOURSELF
And then you fall into bed again, crying tears that feel like a flood that never-ends…
When infidelity occurs, life and emotions become a roller-coaster. One moment you feel ok and the next you feel like you have ZERO control over your emotions, thoughts or words. The ups and downs you might be experiencing right now (even months or years after an affair) can range from:
"I love you." "I hate you." "Get the heck out." "Don't leave." "I can't stand the sight of you." "Tell me every detail." "Stop, I can't hear one more detail." "Wait, I still love you and want to save our marriage." "I'll make sure our kids hate you for what you've done to us." "You deserve to have nothing." "I still love you in spite of what you did..."
Little else can induce the wild thinking, emotionality, drama and trauma quite like an affair.
This is exactly why I created this class. To help YOU find a path out and forward. To unveil a crack of light at the end of this seemingly unbearable tunnel, and strengthen you to move toward it…
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS 45 MIN FREE TRAINING + Q&A
Learn the 4 DISTINCT phases of healing after an affair, and HOW to navigate each one so that you and your marriage can recover fully. (Even if you're several months, or years post-affair.) MOST couples simply learn to live with the pain and trauma and it eventually becomes painful 'background noise' that colors every aspect of your life-- INSTEAD of overcoming it and healing it. Don't let this be you...
Understand WHY AFFAIRS HAPPEN, and how to safeguard your relationship against infidelity in the future, or to safeguard a future relationship against infidelity; and how to build a relationship for sustainable success, joy, connection and Faithfulness.
Learn SPECIFIC TOOLS to DISSOLVE the crippling, non-stop mental images, comparisons, and grueling questions of ALL things related to the "other woman", so that you can move forward with a clear and calm heart and mind, and eventually embrace peace, fulfillment and happiness.
Gain the tools to DIMINISH, AND EVENTUALLY ELIMINATE, the unimaginable guilt, shame, humiliation, and self-hatred that accompanies being the partner who had an affair, while gaining the tools to help your wife let go and move on from all the hurt, betrayal and humiliation of being on the receiving end of the affair.
Learn 2 SIMPLE EXERCISES you can use NOW on your own, OR together, to start replacing the collective FEELINGS of betrayal, anger, upset, resentment, shame and disappointment; this way you can begin removing conflict, blame, defensiveness, manic thinking and egg-shell walking, while re-building self and other trust and happiness.
Affair Facts:
Did you know that nearly 90% of couples who experience infidelity in their marriage NEVER FULLY solve the problems that led to it in the first place- leaving them feeling long-term resentment, hurt and trauma, while also being vulnerable to multiple affairs?
Did you know that the same 90% of couples who experience infidelity in their marriage do not get the help they need to heal, recover FULLY and regrow the necessary trust and connection to THRIVE together- which ends up in a marriage that limps along with vast amounts of hurt, anger, resentment, fear and doubt until one or both partners can't take the pain any longer and file for divorce?
Did you know that 85% of couples who go to traditional marriage therapy after an affair wind up divorced within 12 months?
BUT....
Did you ALSO know that with the RIGHT kind of help and support, couples who experience affairs CAN become FAR happier, connected, more playful together, and have deeper, more beautiful communication, trust, friendship and passion than they did before the affair?
IMPORTANT NOTE:
THERE WILL BE NO SIDES TAKEN...
I teach from a place of LOVE and COMPASSION toward BOTH PARTNERS.
The partner who engaged in the affair will not be shamed, nor humiliated. This class seeks to help, support and facilitate healing of BOTH parties.
I want both partners to understand how the marriage became vulnerable to an affair, and begin to move forward out of the emotional warfare that you are both currently facing.
There will be no excuses made for the party who committed the affair, yet will strive to support how understanding can play a powerful role in healing your lives, hearts, minds, emotions and marriage after an affair.
The thing is, when you focus on just a few VERY POWERFUL things in affair recover that TRULY make a difference, you create results and connection that is superior.
Healing and moving forward is about letting go of what's NOT working, so that you can do a FEW KEY things in highly effective ways…
I'll show you the 3-step system all our clients use to LEARN to live powerfully, vibrantly and happily- AFTER AN AFFAIR
Master Class Details:
Date:
May 7, 2024
Time:
6:00 AM Pacific / 7:00 AM Mountain / 8:00 AM Central / 9:00 AM Eastern
Duration:
45 minutes + Q&A
Where:
Your Computer (cozy in your PJs with a cup of tea or a glass of wine!)
Investment:
FREE
Can't make it live?
No worries, this training will be recorded for your convenience!
Bonus Includes:
Healing from an affair work book (PDF)
Includes multiple healing and communication exercises to help you communicate calmly and effectively, and with focused goals for healing and forward progress
$99 Value
This Training Is Limited, So Register NOW!
Hi, I'm Dr. Shawn Haywood
This Training Is Limited, So Register NOW!
Hi, I'm Dr. Shawn Haywood