free webinar
BEYOND THE BETRAYAL
A Clear Path to:
Eliminate Triggers (yes, it is very possible)
Rebuild Unshakable Trust, and
Create Lasting Connection After an Affair
A FREE webinar for high-performing couples recovering after an affair
For your peace of mind: you will not appear on video, and your name or details will never be shared publicly. Your contact information is used only for communication and to ensure you feel personally supported along the way!
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the aftermath of an affair?
You’re not alone. There’s nothing quite like the emotional turmoil that can linger after an affair.
The moment your worst fears were confirmed, the powerful mix of emotions was unlike anything you have ever experienced.
Time stopped, as life seemed to drain from every cell in your body … before being filled with an overpowering mix of rage, confusion, panic, and despair.
AND NOW?
There are no words to describe the pain you still carry in your heart and the intrusive thoughts of another woman, and the details of the affair that start replaying out of nowhere.
Your mind continuously wonders if your husband is actually telling you the truth.
The weighted cloud of anxiety and despair hangs over your head, threatening to take you down at any moment.
Your mind cycles continuously through conflicting thoughts -
"I love you." ↔ "I hate you."
"Don't leave me." ↔ “Get the heck out of here”
“I can't live without you” ↔ "I can't stand the sight of you."
"I need every detail." ↔ "Stop, I can't hear one more detail."
"I still love you in spite of what you did..." ↔ "I'll make sure our kids hate you for what you've done to us."
And your body is confused
One minute you feel energized and ready to take on the day
and the next you are holding in tears as you rush out of the office at noon.
And your body is confused.
One minute you feel energized and ready to take on the day
and the next you are holding in tears as you rush out of the office at noon.
AND THE MOST FRUSTRATING PART IS...
time doesn’t seem to have offered any cure or clarity.
and because you have always been able to learn and solve your way out of any challenge, you try every combination of therapy, podcast, yelling, and self-help book you can get your hands on.
Only to find yourself repeating the same manic cycles.
You desperately want to feel like yourself - your energetic, unstoppable, powerhouse self again, but you aren’t sure HOW –
And you don’t know if what you want is even possible…
If you can relate, I want you to know that you are not alone AND -
you are in the right place!
and the good news is: whole healing and happiness is 100% possible for you AND your marriage. This webinar will show you the way.
Whether you were betrayed or were the one who had the affair, the emotional intensity can be paralyzing. If you were betrayed, you likely feel on edge constantly, and hyper-aware of every word, action, and tiny inconsistency. If you had the affair, you may be struggling with crippling guilt, shame, and anxiety that never seems to let up.
This webinar is designed specifically for people like you. It’s a safe space where you’ll learn practical strategies to calm your nervous system, respond rather than react, and regain a sense of calm, clarity, and connection in your relationship and your life.
BY THE END OF THIS FREE WEBINAR, YOU WILL BE ABLE TO:
Recognize the warning signs and underlying reasons behind affairs, so you can better understand what happened
Navigate the emotional and relational consequences of an affair with clarity and perspective
Identify the hidden blocks that are slowing your healing—and take steps to remove them so you can move forward faster
Apply the key pillars of rebuilding trust in your relationship
Use a proven strategy to create lasting emotional healing after an affair
Take clear, actionable next steps in your personal healing journey that will lead to healing in a fraction of the time of traditional marriage counseling programs
Learn how to get individualized answers to your most pressing questions
WHY THIS WEBINAR IS DIFFERENT:
Traditional marriage counseling often misses the full scope of what high-performing couples need.
Research shows:
85% of couples who attend standard or traditional counseling or therapy after an affair end up divorced within 12 months.
Nearly 90% report ongoing anger, hurt, and resentment, leaving relationships vulnerable to future betrayal.
High-performing couples need a structured, science-based, practical approach that addresses emotional regulation, nervous system healing, and relational communication. This webinar delivers exactly that.
WHAT YOU'LL GAIN:
By attending, you’ll begin to:
Calm your mind and eliminate intrusive thoughts.
Gain clarity on what you truly want for yourself and your marriage.
Rebuild unshakable trust and emotional safety with your partner.
Restore calm, focus, and composure in both your personal life and professional life.
Create a relationship that feels more connected and resilient than ever before.
BONUS FOR ATTENDEES:
When you attend, you’ll also receive:
Healing from an Affair Workbook (PDF) – $99 Value
- Multiple exercises to help you communicate effectively.
- Step-by-step tools to make measurable progress in your emotional recovery.
Post-Affair Self-Care Checklist when you watch the webinar
- Stay until the end of the webinar and get a free self-care checklist packed with practical tips to support your full recovery.
SAFE, PRIVATE & SUPPORTIVE
For your peace of mind:
You won’t appear on video.
Your name or details will never be shared publicly.
Your contact information is only used to communicate with you and ensure you feel personally supported along the way.
YOUR NEXT STEP:
Healing and connection after betrayal are possible—no matter when the affair occurred. This webinar will give you a clear, actionable roadmap to move from chaos to calm, and from fear to lasting connection.
Are you ready to get started?
HERE'S WHAT PARTICIPANTS SAY
"Omg I'm feeling so much better now. Thank you so much!!!"
“I slept sound for the first time in months, now knowing there is hope for me to reclaim my mind and our marriage.”
"Hi Dr Shawn!! I already feel like we finally have some direction in all of this craziness after the webinar. We have already put some things into practice and it really has helped!"
“Thank you for this training, this is the first time I’ve felt hope since I found out about the affair.”
“Understanding WHY my husband had the affair is a game changer.”
ABOUT DR. SHAWN HAYWOOD
Dr. Shawn Haywood has over two decades of experience helping individuals and couples navigate life’s most difficult challenges, including affair recovery. Trained as a traditional therapist, she shifted to coaching to offer a more efficient, results-oriented approach. With her calm, structured, and compassionate style, she equips high-performing couples with practical tools to process emotions, regain clarity, and rebuild resilient, connected relationships.
